If you find the words like and fatalities in the same sentence acceptable, it ain't a good look. Just my .02 dollars. Your opinion might be different, but if you were giving a talk to a roomful of people, and combine the two words closely adjacent, like liking the death rate, you can bet a goodly number will be bothered. Argue with them.
In summary, you now stipulate:
1) You understood perfectly well what he said. Just like all the rest of us understood perfectly well what he said.
2) Nevertheless, you made a choice to parse the statement in the most extreme ragebait way possible and then argue with him for your parsing.
3) To that end, instead of directly quoting him in a meaningful, you began posting that he said the words you chose to parse -- "we'll actually like it that the kid was killed" -- rather than what he actually said even though you admit that you in fact understood.
4) When asked who said "we'll actually like it that the kid was killed", you at first continue to insist on your chosen re-wording and argue with people who understood what was said.
5) Now you pivot to say you also understood it, but the combination of certain trigger words was.the real problem.
6) Then you finish with both owning and disowning your original statement, by explaining that the wording would be problematic to some hypothetical roomful of other people, and that everyone here on slashdot who understood perfectly well what he was saying, should go "Argue with them".
So you have an argument to make, and you make it across several posts, but when anyone challenges your willful mis-parsing of the original comment, you switch to saying it's not your argument and we should go find and argue with the people who might make that argument. Okay, then why make the argument here on slashdot at all? This isn't the Senate floor or a shareholder earnings press release. We're just people talking to other people. What's the benefit of having people language-police their everyday statements for every hypothetical edge case?
Let's simply end the thread and award you the good citizenship ribbon for defending:
theoretically-triggerable feelings of
hypothetical people
who aren't here to react to
a statement that nobody here made.
Man, I feel like that pretty much sums up 95% of social criticism on the Internet these days.