Comment Re: Hopefully.. (Score 1) 155
It is interesting how common victim blaming is against single people. I think it may be some form of survivorship guilt, where when married/dating people hear others having a hard time finding a partner, they need to rationalize it because they feel uncomfortable they might end up in the same boat. The "single because they gave up looking" is such a salve since either the single person is lazy (not looking) or impatient (still looking). Neither eventuality is actually thought through, but it makes the blamer feel more righteous as if the single person deserved it.