One of the worst possible behaviors of this kind is women playing "hard to get", because it gives some men entirely wrong ideas.
At present, a lot of women who play hard to get - after all, she wants to see if he is interested in a relationship, and not just a one night stand - has been complicated via simplicity. Women need to vet their suitors, and making him wait a while proves something to her if he sticks around. But "No means no" has caused a lot of men who simply go away after he gets that no.
A lawyer when asked about it noted that if you ask a woman out, and she says "no", you are probably okay. If you ask again after she said no once, she might have an actionable sexual harassment claim against you.
Which is really concerning. When I was single, and a woman said no, You could say something like "Are you sure", without worrying about repercussions.
There is a saying that people should be careful about what they wish for because they might get it.
A lot of good women are concerned that no men approach them any more. Many have no issues with being approached. If she isn't interested, she thanks them but gives her reason. But those who rudely dismiss an approach by a guy they think isn't attractive enough, or post TikTok's telling men to never approach women, or vid it to embarrass the guy are causing a real problem for decent women.
Oh, that claim that rape is not about sex at all but all about power? To believe that you have do deny evolution. Does not put you in good company.
It depends on the situation. If a young lady goes to a frat party, gets really drunk and has a train run on her (talk about not being PC!) it is definitely all about sex.
If it is some woman walking home at night and gets assaulted, a good chance it was a power/hate move.
I think the broad acceptance of the power move motivation was a legal move response to the Defense trying to blame the victim for dressing provocatively, even if she really wasn't. So even if it was about sex it is a way to deflect the presumed motive toward something the prosecution can work with.