If you think that's what "hate speech" should mean, then:
- Stop trying to blur the term by saying that identifying certain arguments as typical of SJWs is hate speech.
- Admit up front that it's your own hobby horse rather than implying that it's an accepted term in the US legal community.
- Stop trying to tie it to "hate crime" laws, because the basis for government sanction is totally different between the two.
- Stop trying to tie it to statements like the Anonymous Coward's comment hypothetical "you f*cking b*tch! I hate everything you say and if we ever meet i will rape you and hang you on your own intestines" -- which is a very individualized statement, rather than expressing hatred towards any group.
In short, don't be such a dumbass threadjacker.