I have played the game and the wanted system is so basic as to be a joke. If you move away by just a block or two police can't chase and stars go away. I also played it since release and through the first couple patches before I refunded.
All the things you list as who cares, a lot of us care. For a lot of folks, myself include, suspension of disbelief to be immersed in a world requires that world meet a certain threshold of believably. Cars and pedestrians having set paths heavily breaks that. The moment you pay a attention and really notice it, it is very hard to unsee for a lot of people, myself included. And it is absolutely immersion breaking.
This game needed another year in development at least. It's very unfortunately it didn't get that. Whole areas are beautiful but feel utterly empty and devoid of life or things the player can interact with.
A lot of the events on the board are kill a bunch of people grab a random item or thing and that is all. Which is a stark contrast to the Witcher 3 which had even small side quests having their own elements of story. In Blood and Wine, random question marks on the map tied into main quests through notes, or with the knights you would encounter throughout the world and discovered they formed their own story as well
Cyberpunk does not have that level of story built into the world that would make it compelling. Artistically it does. You see all these awesome areas where the artists made very interesting nooks and crannies, but they didn't then take the time to fill those places with interesting and compelling story elements like they did with the Witcher 3. That's why the game was such a let down, and seems flawed at a rather fundamental level.
I think that game is potentially salvageable. But I think it would require such a massive investment in time and effort to build out the world like it should have been, that we will never see the Cyberpunk we should have gotten. You can see they were headed in the right direction, but then cut themselves off at the knee and released before being anywhere close to finishing.
When it goes on a deep enough sale I'll probably buy in again. I liked the start of the main story enough that it seems worth getting for the main quest line at a sale price.