So, I'm guessing you're one of those who believes that human life begins at "conception"?
Could you specify whether conception is when the sperm fertilizes the egg
Because if you draw that line at fertilization, most birth control pills are equivalent to constant indiscriminate murder.
Yes, they are... That is why my wife doesn't take them and has never taken them. We do use other birth control methods however. For example, condoms are fine.
if eggs are fertilized at the wrong time of the month then the zygote still gets aborted just as part of the normal menstrual cycle.
Yes, but that is God's work, not human's. You didn't take an overt action to cause it.
In other words, people die all the time, sometimes for good reasons, sometimes for no reason at all. That doesn't make them bad, it is just life. You go when it is your time to go.
There is a difference between billions of fertile eggs dying every year due to nature and millions killed on purpose.
That is why the law, for example, splits out homicide between intentional and unintentional, and sometimes you can kill someone and not go to jail because it was an honest accident due to events beyond your control.
Note: I fully get that not everyone agrees with me, thus the willingness to compromise. I give my point of view and set my position, then figure out what I can actually get, because I don't live in a world that has to do what I say. I honestly wish BOTH sides would remember that, because I hear it too often from both extremes that they don't wish to be reasonable.