eh, come on now why such a hard line? I mean I understand what you're talking about in theory but in practice cops are people too and sometimes they just want to know basic information if we treat them like enemies like this they will treat us like enemies
I suppose since you're talking about your children I can respect what you're trying to tell them since they may not have the cognitive capacity to tell if the police are manipulating them however I've also heard people say here " never talk to the cops ever ever ever always ask for a lawyer" it's not like every single time a police officer opens his mouth he's trying to manipulate you there were two police officers at a community meeting today I attended and I almost asked him a question but someone else asked it before me