This is one of the most annoying thing about today's SJW babies -- and one of the biggest reasons why society is finally fed up and not taking any more of it -- everything to them is about "hate." Anything they don't understand must be because of hate. People expressing opposing ideas or viewpoints are hateful. Must be so sad to live with such a disturbed worldview.
Actually, you bring up an interesting topic. Everything to them is about "hate."
That's because the same kind of thinking that religious belief is based around also allows for this Post-Modernist claptrap.
You see, if you turn the world into a nice black and white, then all you have to do is compare it to your predefined list of bad things and work backwards from there.
Is it a sin? Is it against the noble eightfold path? Is this heresy? If so, it's bad. Find a reason why later, it's bad, that's all you need to know.
They have swapped out this religious thinking for identity politics.
Is this sexist?
Is this racist?
Is this conservative?
Do normal straight men like it?
Is this capitalist?
If so, it's BAD. Find a reason later. That's why you see an ever-expanding bubble of "bad" surrounding them. "You're just a racist sexist Tea Party MRA GamerGate transphobic Alt Right islamophobic CIS WHITE MALE BernieBro benefiting from the capitalist heteronormative PATRIARCHY!"
The word salad doesn't matter. They really mean "bad."
The leader of the Honey Badgers has a great video up on it here. She's incredibly articulate and covers this in excellent detail.