As a woman, it's friday at down here and for work today I am wearing dark jeans, high top sneakers, a Dr Who T-shirt, I had short (though coloured) hair and am wearing no make up. I don't consider myself a tom boy and get flirted with plenty. I'm also on the cuddly side as far as size goes.
Not all of us buy into the whole "I must out-glamour my sisters-in -arms or I am a failure as a woman" concept. I also don't read women's magazines unless I forget to take a book when waiting in dentist or doctor's offices, and I don't watch commercial TV.