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Comment Re:Generational gap (Score 1) 335

No, quite the opposite, really.

People who don't make mistakes are either (1) perfect or (2) unwilling to try things without total confidence.

#1 doesn't exist. #2 is pathological and crippling.

People who don't have a history of interesting and possibly impressive mistakes are almost certainly a bad fit for any job important enough to bother with a background check. Thing is, if we were comparing the teenager to a much older person, the "irresponsible kid" comparison might be relevant. But that's not what's on the table; we're comparing two adults, one of whom did stupid stuff years earlier when their brain wasn't even finished growing.

Comment Re: So... (Score 1) 172

Well, one answer might be that they could get the same rights everyone else does, to ask to be addressed or referred to a given way. But not necessarily the right to demand that everyone else be referred to the same way.

But I've only ever known one, and so far as I can tell, if her family weren't abusive she'd be fine, it's just that they're abusive to her. It's sorta like the distinction between "gay people" and "people who struggle with homosexuality".

Comment Re: So... (Score 2) 172

See, that's the thing.

I don't want people going around separating me from who I am. Autism is not a thing that happened to me. It's what I am. If you made a thing otherwise like me, but not autistic, that thing would be a person, sure, but it would be a different person.

Comment Re:So... (Score 5, Interesting) 172

Please, please do NOT use "person-first" language.

I'm autistic. Most of my friends are autistic. I know dozens to hundreds of autistic people.

Guess how many people I have ever met who are autistic, and prefer to be called a "person with autism"? Hint: The number is slightly lower than one, and it's an integer.

Try going around referring, not to women, but to "persons with femaleness", and see how that works out for you.

A randomly selected blog article on the topic.

Basically, person-first language marks you as aligned with the Autism Speaks folks and their anti-autistic-people propaganda machine. Avoid it.

Comment Re:So... (Score 1) 172

The distinction you point to is not as clear-cut as it might seem, because often these are the same people under different circumstances.

I do just fine. I have friends whose underlying autistic traits aren't any "more severe" or whatever, but who were raised by people who tried to force them to "be normal", and they have a much harder time.

Overload me, and I can't understand or use spoken language reliably. I can still read and write, though. But if no one ever gives you a pen, you can come across as a lot less capable than you are...

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