Because they're all integrated. Your car's radar can detect that the vehicle in front of you has suddenly hit the brakes, it can sound an alarm and blink a light on the windshield warning you of a road hazard immediately ahead, the engine telemetry can talk to your ABS braking systems telling them that the car is still moving even though the brakes have locked up, your crash sensors can detect an accident, your seat belt pre-tensioners and airbag deployment systems help protect the cabin occupants in case of an accident, your entertainment system can tell your cell phone to call a number, and your telemetry system records the events. Tying them all together permits your car to help you avoid accidents, protect you in case of an impact, call an emergency services number in the event of a crash, and can even help prove to a court that you were traveling only 5 MPH and had applied the brakes two seconds before you were struck.
There are safety designs in place. The different systems tie to the CAN bus through a fairly simple and robust chip that implements the protocols, which helps insulate and isolate a faulty device from overrunning the bus. There are often multiple CAN buses in a car, with engine management and safety being isolated from cabin entertainment systems. The CAN bus protocol has a priority mechanism, where lower numbered devices take priority over higher number devices - safety systems, such as ABS, crash detection and airbag deployment, are the lowest numbers, security systems like door locks have higher numbers, and the whiz-bang gadgetry of your stereo has the highest numbers.
Furthermore, your ABS system is an active driver assistance system, but it's not your means of braking. If it fails, the hydraulics still connect your brake pedals to your wheels, and you can still maintain control of the car. The airbags are just one component of an overall safety package, so if they fail, the seat belt pre-tensioners might still work. Even if the pre-tensioners also fail, the seat belts themselves still offer protection. The steering wheel is designed to collapse in the event you hit it with your body. The body is designed with crumple zones to absorb impacts.
What they've done is to combine these pieces that have known failure rates of one per tens or hundreds of millions of miles driven, and used them to protect you in the case of a serious accident, which they know happens once per hundred thousand miles driven. The chances of the systems working together to keep you safer are much higher than the chances that they'll all fail at the moment you need them the most.