There's no need to get snarky, mmmkay ?
"World of Ends" is one view of the network ceratainly, but if you look at wikipedia's article on the topic http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Network_neutrality#Definitions_of_network_neutrality you'll find three definitions of network neutrality and that two of the three have to do with QoS and traffic tiering. TFA doesn't provide any details as to what specifically the FCC is referring to.
The bandwidth issue is relevant because residential ISPs engage in oversubscription and rely on the fact that most connections are idle most of the time. I can't point you to solid industry wide numbers as to the ratio (as most companies don't reveal the information) but various places on the web put it from 10:1 to 50:1. Here is an example of an ISP in the SF Bay Area called Etheric http://www.dslreports.com/reviews/2384 that advertises overbooking ratio of 3.3:1 for their "Enterprise" service all the way to 20:1 for residential usage. They claim that that DSL competitors oversubscribe at up to 80:1.
Current residential ISP pricing is based on this model. If connections were priced no the assumption that you would actually use your 3mbps continuously all month, it would cost considerably more than $10 or $20 /mo.
When Comcast and British Telecom and others have engaged in throttling thus far it has been to curb the usage of users using high amounts of bandwidth. I haven't heard yet of Comcast prioritizing their own VoIP over Vonnage VoIP or similar.
Here is a relatively extensive article on commercial ISP realities http://jobs.tmcnet.com/topics/broadband-comm/articles/22237-dismal-reality-internet-management.htm. Prices have come down some since that was written so, in a colo, you can now get quality transfer for ~$5/Mbit per month (95 percentile) if you're buying multiple gigabits, but otherwise it's right on. (I have no connection to the author, just found the post via Google).
"all packets are equal" is a nice idea, but i certainly wouldn't want to pay for it. (Actually, i currently wouldn't mind paying for it since i neither torrent nor watch much video, but i wouldn't want to pay for it if i were a heavy consumer of media delivered through the internet.)
(apologies for the bad formatting. I still can't figure out what slashcode wants me to do to make a paragraph)