Comment The biggest difference - inequality (Score 1) 219
Who could afford to send a telegram, or visit a doctor? Not the lower classes, except in absolute emergencies. And there was almost no middle class to speak of back then.
Being a lord in a giant castle may not seem so bad, but the life of the peasant majority doing the actual work was far less rosy. Of course, it's not entertaining to hear about somebody's life of toil, so any movie or book about 'the past' focuses on the idle upper crust - apparently leading some people to think everyone lived like that.