(Part of) The complex truth is that, even though you personally may be marginalised, and personally be "unfairly disadvantaged", you belong to a Group that as a whole gets a disproportionately large chunk of every pie.
You may not have money, but whites have most of the money. You may not have education opportunities, but whites have the most education, the most facilities for finance, the most positive bias from mostly white faculty, the most job prospects, and the highest salary.
If you are missing out on any of the white advantages it sucks for you, but it doesn't make them false.
Now, if you truly feel left out and disadvantaged, one of the positive things that could come out of it is to realise that THAT is exactly how minorities feel all the time: treated unfairly, left out.
The other possible positive thing that could come out of this moment of empathy is to realise that the public discourse about race in USA is broken, and encouraged by some sectors to continue to be broken.
The colour of your skin does not matter in the slightest regarding capacity or intelligence. But it matters vitally when it comes to tribalism and "us vs them" politics that keep little people fighting each, other whilst true robber barons run the show and watch the spectacle from above. And those guys come in all colours of skin.