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So Vanessa comes over tonight. She had asked if we could get Chinese and meet at my house at 7pm. I said 6pm would be better. She said we should compromise and do 6:30. I said ok. She was running late and missed the road so she showed up at 7pm. I said, "Is this how it's going to be? We compromise and make a decision and then you do what you want anyway?" She didn't know I was messing with her and she was getting all apologetic. So I let her know I was teasing her and then we ate the chinese food. Oh, yeah. Irony is using the rice bowls and chopsticks that Boo bought me for my birthday for the first time on my first date with another girl.

Then we watched Signs because she hadn't seen it. She said it was scary so she snuggled up against me. We finished the movie and I asked if she had brought her bathing suit. She said she had and it was in the car. She made me walk out there with her because it was dark. So while we were walking out there I made the sounds the aliens in Signs made and she was like, "Stop it! You are mean!" And I said, "I'm not mean, I'm nice."

So we went to change and then got in the hot tub. I gave her a massage and then she gave me one. So then I leaned back against her and she had her arms around me and I asked if she was having a good time. She said, "Yeah, can't you tell?" so I kissed her and said I could tell now. She said, "How can you tell?" I said, "Because you kissed me." She said, "Uh... no, you kissed me!" I said, "No, I'm pretty sure you instigated that, if I kissed you it would be like this..." and I kissed her again and I gently bit her lower lip as I pulled away*. She said, "Oh, is that how it'd be?" I said it was and started kissing her more.

She was pulling me up close against her and kissing me. I lifted her head up started kissing her neck. She'd been saying something all night about how she used to go out to clubs and she'd tell them her name was Roxy so no one would know her real name and she could misbehave a little. So I had asked earlier if I called her Roxy would she misbehave and she laughed. So when she said Roxy and the club I kept thinking of Romy and Michelle on that movie. So I'm sitting there in a hot tub with this chick nibbling on my ears and I open my big mouth and say, "So is this Roxy or Michelle?" She stops and said, "What did you just call me?" I'm thinking OH F@#$! I said, "Vanessa, your name is Vanessa, I was just thinking of that movie, Romy and Michelle..." and she said, "I've never seen a movie called that." And I said, "I promise, I don't even know a Michelle, you can look in my phone if you want." She starts to move like she's going to get out and I said, "I'm sorry Vanessa." and I kissed her and said, "Vanessa" and then kissed her again and said it again. I kept doing that until she started kissing back, and said she forgave me.

She REALLY forgave me judging from the rest of the night. She kept kissing me and after we got out of the hot tub and changed back into our clothes I was putting some slow music on and she came in and stood in the doorway and I walked over and hugged her and we started dancing. She invited over for dinner tomorrow night. She said she is going to cook for me. She also said that if I wanted to stay the night, I could. I said I didn't know if that was a good idea, we might go to far. She said, "We won't go too far!" I said I would think about it, but that I really need to just come on home. So I'm NOT taking clothes with me tomorrow so I CAN'T spend the night.

Oh, Sol, Casey didn't get back in town, so I didn't have to run Vanessa off early so I could have Casey over. :-)

*You guys remember this move, it drives many girls nuts. You want to have enough pressure so their lip pulls out until you let go, but not enought that it hurts. You'll know pretty quick if she liked it, so if she didn't don't try it again, and be a little less agressive. If she liked it, you can try other things like nibbling on her ears.

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  • WOW (Score:3, Insightful)

    by NeMon'ess ( 160583 ) <flinxmid@@@yahoo...com> on Wednesday August 18, 2004 @12:54AM (#9997949) Homepage Journal
    Must copy to hard drive.
    Must get a hot tub.
    Must remember to think of similar movie titles if I ever say the wrong name when with a girl.
    Remembered the bottom lip tip.
    Looking forward to the next journal.
    • alt.seduction.fast

      Maniac High has some guides, too.

      Seriously- that whole "wrong name thing" ... it plays itself out.
      • Why read alt.seduction.fast when you can get right to the source? Most of the techniques from a.s.f are NLP [altfeld.com] (Neuro Languist Programming) based.
        • yeah, but I don't want all the mumbojumbo- I just want to hit the skins.

          If I want to run a seminar on how to siphon cash out of peoples wallets (entry price: $600 a head) I'll look further into NLP.
          • Like with anything, if you understand the foundation you can be much more effective. I'd not advocate going to seminars or anything of the such, but you can learn a lot from the NLP community for free.

            But hey, if you are as successful at hitting the skins as you want to be, then I'm sure you don't need any more skills.
            • Yep, I "self-actualized" my way into dating and subsequently into marriage. Thats pretty much the epitome of success (however- I do get a bit misty eyed when I casually flirt with women or meet new women in general. Its like, "sorry ladies. If you only knew me then...")

              On a tangent- I was listening to a Tony Robbins cd (at the behest of those alt.sed.fast cats; and no I didn't pay for it I think I got it out of the library) and had to laugh as he was extolling the virtues of the Beardstown Ladies invest
              • Well, the only thing I like that Tony Robbins did was his part in the movie Shallow Hal [imdb.com] (great movie, btw).

                Seriously, Tony's seminars will make most people feel great. A few days later you realize you gained nothing from it. I do however really enjot the works of Richard Bandler and many of the other NLP community.
  • It was beautiful reading until you screwed up. Like reading good porn stories, not that I'd know. Then CRASH! I grimmaced and couldn't look back at the screen for 15 seconds. I figured it was over. Amazing recovery.
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      • The thing about most women, if you approach them the way they need to be approached, it doesn't matter so much what. It's like in a relationship. People communicate love in five basic ways:

        1. They are vocal with "I love you".
        2. They buy gifts or other materialist things.
        3. Acts of service to (not on) the person.
        4. Physical acts such as kissing and holding hand.
        5. Time spent together

        The same is true when dealing with the other sex in daily lives. In this case, TL used Physical Acts and Vocal apologies t
  • How, with this type of night that you had, do you surpress the feelings for moving to the next step? I'll NEVER know. With all your smoothe moves, you MUST be deficient in testosterone...that's the only thing that could explain your rock-solid restraint! ;) (Totally joking!!!)
    • Restraint ain't seeing how much temptation you can handle without going too far. Real restraint/purity is running in the other direction.
      • This is true.... I have been in similar situations to the one described here, but I didn't have the ability to just walk away from it. I kept on making out till the early morning, screwing up my classes by sleeping through them.

        jason
      • I'd say, real restraint is declaring the line and then holding it. After all, given the situation, if he always flees temptation, he's never going to go on more than a few dates with any one girl, never get married, and die alone and sick.

        OTOH, if he puts himself in a situation where there's temptation (like, say, dating) and holds his line (no sex), that's restraint, sure as hell, and done the right way, too.

        Purity is another matter, but it's both subjective and overrated.
        • I think it's a lot easier when you plan in advance. He decided not to take clothes, it's not like he wanted away from a girl with her *bleep* around *bleep*.
          • I don't see how not-taking-clothes has anything to do with it--if the temptation's that bad, sure enough it's gonna be bad enough for a hour or two of wearing dirty clothes in the morning.
            • It's a mental commitment thing. In my mind when I make the commitment to doing something, its going to take a lot more than some girl I hardly like to change my mind. Plus, I think that was kinda the point, the temptation wasn't that bad.

  • subject line (Score:3, Funny)

    by dubiousdave ( 618128 ) <dubiousdave@gmail.com> on Wednesday August 18, 2004 @01:27AM (#9998156) Journal
    She stops and said, "What did you just call me?"

    She's not as much of a movie geek as most of the girls (and guys) I know. I was expecting her to break into: "What's my name? Say my name, bitch!"



    (Romy and Michelle? You admit to having seen that?)

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    • Never use her name if you can avoid it. It minimizes the chance for such events. Before you go to see her or vice versa, drill her name into your head. It's a great way to ruin a night, getting the name wrong.

      Get yerself a good supply of "pet names".
      • Babe
      • Honey
      • Sweetie
      • Princess
      • Pumpkin
      • Chicken
      • Smoochy-Bear
      • Cuddle-Cakes
      • Sugar
      • Dumpling
      • Poopsie
      • SnugglePuss
      • Snookums
      • Kitten
      • ... etc
      • uuuummmm......chicken?
      • "Ma petite chou-chou", and "sugar-bob"
        You can't miss with those two.
      • A list of names is great, but I learned a long time ago one name for all women (except my family). A friend of mine did that, calling every girl "candy". When he was going down town, he would say, "time to play in candy land". We he actually met a girl named Candy. After they split up, the next girl thought he was referring to Candy while he was going to town. Not a pretty sight.
        • That's why I stick to relatively safe names like "Babe". If it sounds even remotely like a real girl's name it can (and in your friend's case, will) get you in trouble. ;-)
  • and tits.
  • I had a chick cook for me on the second date once.

    Now she's my wife.
  • It'd be a shame if you had to stink the next day. Don't you know the boyscout credo? Always be prepared. Even now, that I've been out of the dating scene for a long ass time, I always have spare clothes in case I get stuck somewhere.

    Be careful out there!
  • The old TL is back, replete with Tales from the Hottub!!

    I've missed ya, buddy!

    Oh, and are you sure you're not regaling us with all of this just because you know Boo's gonna read it and get insanely jealous? I mean, aside from the fact that we eat it up like starving chimps at a banana buffet?

    ....Bethanie....
    • According to her, she doesn't even think about me anymore, so why would she read my journal? Besides, if I DID want her to know, I would have answered the phone when LEG called last night and said, "I can't talk, I'm in the spa with this girl." instead of letting it go to voicemail. :-)

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