> It is very frustrating, and I don't know what the solution is
It's probably more frustrating to all the girl you're trying to push into a career they're not interested in.
Stop forcing your will onto people! Let them develop their own lives!
The fact someone chooses another career path than what you had in mind for them is NOT a problem.
Crazy Americans trying to 'cure' gays and force girls to program.
Bunch of fascist brain washers!