Comment Re:Let me tell you about mine. (Score 1) 164
Sacrifice a few things, let you mother move into with you, no matter how little space you have. Take control of her finances if you can, mentor her if you can't. Be her shield and keep her demons away (finance, foolishness, whatever). Start to pay out her loans but prevent her from taking more.
She needs help, she needs your help, tough love - so give that in spades. Money means little when you've lost your family.