People have tried what use to sometimes be referred to as a 'double opt out'. That is you opt out of the xray scanner and then you also opt out of the genital fondling as well.
This would generally mean you could not fly that day and that you could be subject to a $10,000 fine but afaik not a single person has ever been fined for doing so and no one has ever been detained for doing this either. So it is possible. I had been determined to do the double opt out before I finally fled the fucking crazy states of america for good.
Now the xray scanners that chertoff was so well paid for buying us have been phased out and replaced with the more benign mmw scanners with privacy software so as not to give all the homosexual TSA screeners wood every time a guy goes through. Still the flying in the US is just insanely awful. Nowhere in the world is as bad.
Well except maybe if flying from Paris to the US. That is worse but only because the gestapo agents there are given official instructions, but face no political repercussions for seriously molesting the foreigners trying to leave. They seriously fondled my package big time and the sick fuck seemed to really get off on it. I pushed the French molester away hard and almost wasn't able to fly that day. Long story, but the moral of it is never to fly from CDG to the US if you have any other option. They just blame the USA for having to sex you up so badly.
Good point about the double standard. If homosexuality were truly accepted as normal there would be no reason to disallow opposite sex molestations. If we are forced to have limited sexual contact with someone in order to fly at the very least they should pay attention to our sexual preferences. And while they are at it how about hiring some more attractive people to do it. Maybe people would not mind flying so much if the person fondling our junk was a sexy 18 yo hottie in a bikini instead of some drooling obese horndog of a guy wanking to xrays of our dicks every night. Or for women whatever kind of guy they happen to find attractive. In fact if it's so important for us to have our genitals fondled then we should be able to have more of a choice of partners. Bikinied teen girls with numbers on them say. We might even be able to reserve a favorite before flying or even choose to fly on a day when they are working.