I was hoping the /. community was smarter than trying to shoehorn the 'stolen car' analogy in, but there it is. My tl;dr response to that is, yes, if I left my car doors open and the keys in the ignition, I'd be prepared to accept full responsibility for what someone did with it. P.P.S. And my smileys love you anyway. ( :

Lemme get this straight... Someone using an Internet connection that *you're* responsible for violates the ToS that *you* agreed to, and your reponse is to threaten to leave the ISP? Wow... not only are you a valued customer, you're also a great role model! ( :