What if you're one of those people who has gone around the track long enough to understand that sex divorced from reproduction is meaningless
Ultimately everything is meaningless. Sex is meaningless, having a family is meaningless. Continuing to breath and thereby extending one's life is meaningless. Eating nice food is meaningless.
But to many people living life and enjoying it feels worth doing. In that sense having non reproductive has as much or as little meaning as anything else.
who always wanted to have that family that everyone seems to want to be "liberated" from taking responsibility for?
I don't want to be liberated from the responsibility, I have on desire to spawn. Many people do and seem to have no problem settling down and raising kids.
Reproductive sex isn't boring, like something out of a Puritan movie. It's just as nasty and wild and passionate and kinky as it always was.
Unless you're pretty infertile or want a LOT of kids, then there's an awful lot less of it.
But, it's overlaid with the knowledge that, in that moment, you're like God, reaching down to create life, and your dick is his finger, and this might be the moment that your child is created. It's like taking everything that was pleasant about sex and elevating it to a spiritual level without taking anything away from it.
got nuthin'.
Contraception takes all that away, and renders sex with a woman no different from sex with an apple pie, or a man, or a dog.
I know from experience that beating off (though no direct experience with warm apple pie) is less fun than having sex. I suspect many here will corroborate that. And as for having sex with a man? Well, I'm a guy, and I'm not gay so I don't fancy men. I'm pretty sure the body hair, beard and lack general of boobs and other femal parts would make the experience substantially les enjoyable for me.
And a dog? Gross. Why would I want to spend my time doing something I think dounds really gross?
Now that I realize I'd have an easier time finding a unicorn in this culture than a woman who will truly commit to creating a family,
Da fuq? Given the number of women who seem to really want to hae families, I suspect the problem lies with you, not their non-existence. The suspicion is the word "truly" in there. I strongly suspect you have some weird-ass conditions that disqualify 99.99% of eligable women. Because just going on observation, women who want families is not a rare thing.