I don't disagree. I disagree that there is any solution that doesn't involve talking. It's either that or a continuation of hostilities and no peace. Trying to do anything else is futile.
The definition of a "solution" depends on what side are you analysing. If you consider the palestinian side, a solution will certainly consider educating a large mass of people and providing them the adequate means of living. Sure, some idiots will certainly call that "westernization", as if achieving proper education and respect for one another is something exclusively western, but it's a solution.
But if you're on the other side of the conflict, a solution might consider on just not being attacked anymore. The old and famous "being left alone".
If you're not directly related to the conflict but the fact that there is a conflict is something bad for you, a solution might just consist on getting both sides to shut the hell up.
The real catch is: helping any side of the conflict to achieve a better life is not, and never will be, an obligation. Even if you're a "save the planet" kind of yuppie, taking zero-result actions to turn a bloody conflict into a land full of puppies and brotherhood is still just part of your self-serving nature and not related to actually helping people.
Like I said, you are more alike than you care to admit. You have also pigeonholed an entire people into a characterization that, although applies to some (and perhaps even most, depending on the region), prevents you from even attempting a peaceful solution to a problem, because you believe a peaceful solution cannot exist.
You're still wrong. I still live on a society that preaches and practices respect on a daily basis. There is continous discussion about the problems of society, about tolerance, about minorities, about giving people equal opportunities. My side of the planet (not my country) just elected a black president and even crazy nutjobs such as Evo Morales or Hugo Chaves base their dictatorship attempts on common rules and solid institutions.
When I walk on the street, I interact with white people, black people, asian people, poor people, rich people. And everybody gets along. Violence is never considered to be a solution to any problem and we work hard to actually provide means for people to achieve a better life. Yes, we have issues, but we're trying.
There's no comparison between a western man giving cheap ideas from behind his keyboard to a sand monkey firing an AK-47 to a jewish family just because they're jewish, or a hate-filled idiot teaching kids that jews should be beheaded. Sure, strong military or even diplomatic solutions might sound "cruel" to the common self-serving feel-gooder type, but they're technical solutions based on official and lawful institutions. But even genocide, if discussed and decided by a civilizated society that sees no other solution to the conflict, is superior than living at stone age and teaching kids to hate people based on their ethnicity or religion.
You say that I have "pigeonholed an entire people into a characterization [...]" but you forgot to account the fact that hate and war is the result coming from their "side". The internal issues of their society that are causing the creation of this troubled interface with other societies is their problem, not ours. And we must be careful not to preach a double standard here: they can't be an independent society and fragile victims at the same time. We'll either leave them alone and let them pay for their own decisions or we'll step in and mess around with their internal issues. I haven't "pigeonholed an entire people", I am treating them as an independent society of adults. And listening to arguments and speeches is not what they're interested of doing at the current moment.
I'm saying that a leader needs to talk and try to convince their people to find a peaceful solution. Most will ignore this leader, some (especially from the younger generation) will listen. Given time and effort the peaceful population may outnumber the mostly older prejudiced and combative one.
Perfect! I really hope that such a nice and caring leader arises and lead them into the light.
Until then, whoever is being attacked by the result of the collective ignorance of the said people will continue to pursue violent actions to defend its own people. Or did you expected everyone else to just wait and sacrifice so these people can solve their own internal issues?
I can already see:
- They're trying to mass-murder us!
-- Hey! Leave them alone! Two hundred years from now they'll be nice people.
- But... they'll kill us!
-- Shhh!!! Let's wait for their next generation!
It took time in the US, but the KKK went from an organization that had quite a lot of admiration from the public (watch the movie Birth of a Nation...it's hilarious to see how they are glorified in that film), to a complete joke today. It's not because we have removed their rights to gather and talk--they still publicly march to this day. However, when they do it now, they are ridiculed. The population of non-racists simply overwhelm the population of racist individuals (at least violently racist). It wasn't an instant change, and the road was a pretty tough one, but we managed to get this far, and we're continuing to make strides.
You're forgetting the fact that black people actually stood up against racism. By your measure, they should just have waited for us whites to "naturally" elect or obtain the correct leaders.