Yes, just like the rap group NWA (Nigga's With Attitude). Or that the term "nigga" has been embraced by many in poorer parts of the black community. Please feel free to use that term to describe someone while in any inner city. I'm sure once you make this rational argument everything will be fine.
Actually the term "nigger" has become so offensive that just stating it is somehow offensive. Even when not using it as derogatory term but to quote someone. I'll probably be modded a troll or flamebait just for pointing this out. Grown educated people have gotten to the point that they now sound like 6 year old children. I don't know whether to laugh or cry when I here people call it "The N-word".
Many younger people of the Jewish faith refer to each other as "heeb". There's even a "Heeb Magazine" But you can't be a (black or white) non-Hebrew and use this term.
Gays are allowed to, and do you the term "fag". But if you're heterosexual, and refer to someone as a "fag" it's homophobic.
I really hate this kind of crap. If it's alright for one group of people to use a term, but not another it's racist. Either the term is offensive, or it isn't. There's no modifier because of the color of your skin, your ethnicity, religion, or sexual orientation.
Not at all... The word is not offensive. The simple collection of letters is not offensive. It's the intent behind the use of the word that is offensive. And so, when you put on your pointy white hat and call a black guy the n-word, it's highly offensive, because you intend it to be. When the same black guy calls his friend that, it's not offensive, because he does not intend it to be.
This is the same reason you can make the post you did on Slashdot and not be thought of as offensive, because, despite using the terms, you're using them in a context of a discussion about the terms. But it's also why when you do call someone those names, you can't fall back on your, "bu-bu-but I heard someone else use that word!"
And what ever happened to "sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me"? We've turned into a society of whiny little bitches. Oh damn, someone is going to accuse me of being discriminatory toward female canines and claim that I kill puppies.(/sarcasm)
Actually, you're the one that sounds like a whiny biatch: "Oh, woe is me! I'm so white and anglo-saxon, and I don't get to use terms that are highly offensive to people without being thought of as highly offensive! Boo hoo! Boo hoo! I'll just have to cry myself to sleep on my bed made of unearned privileges, dreaming of encountering police without trepidation, and earning 10-20% more the same work! Boo hoo!" Get over yourself. You're whining about the fact that you can't call people names that you know will offend them with impunity. That's one of the most pathetic things I've ever heard.