What's so funny is it seems like you think I'm an extroverted NT.
Ah, MBTI! I can play that game.
Actually, I thought you were self-identifying as ES?J since you were commenting judgmentally on the isolation and (presumed) theoretical nature of the other poster. Complaining about being confused for NT rounds out the profile to ESFJ. As Muad'Dib said, "What do you despise? By this you are truly known."
We would all be a lot happier if we didn't think we have to be confined to one corner of the world.
I'm not entirely sure what you mean by that. For what it's worth, I wasn't trying to pidgeonhole you; I think you're reading something into my post that I didn't intend to be there. I know that MBTI analysts say that the preferences described are static, and if that hurts your feelings, I'm sorry; please take it out on them, not me ;^)
All I intended with my post was to point out that divisiveness based on personality is counterproductive, and understanding that people can be different from you and still be good people is important. You and VortexCortex both seemed to be defensive about your styles of interaction, both of which are perfectly valid. Learning to accept others' preferences and accommodating them is well worth the effort, for everyone involved.
Of course, I may be offering advice where none is wanted; in which case I'll shut up and leave you alone.