I would say that the world does look different to middle class black people, and even middle class white women, at least in North America. To pretend otherwise to to assume that we've successfully removed all race and gender barriers from our society. But we haven't. You can pretend that everything is all sweetness and light if you like
Don't put words in my mouth on your way to build your straw man. I know that NOTHING is sweetness and light, and one reason for that is that we as a nation fail to strip away the bullshit, and continually presume and cite things that simply don't exist. Systemic injustices exist, and they are class-based. When this assumption (that all whites have easier paths to success) is not challenged, we do ALL humans an injustice. As we do ANY TIME we strengthen racist positions at all, and it is a racist position.
The point is that it's easier for someone to pull themselves up from the gutter if they're white males than it is for anyone else.
Based on what, exactly?
The fact that you came up from destitution isn't the point.
Oh, but it is, unfortunately. My perspective is one that is lost ... mine and that of people like me. I've watched loved ones die from drug addiction and systemic poverty, watched them bounce in and out of prison - with little to no social program to help them when they most needed it, and when they were at the age when it would have helped, they were in positions where they were the minority due to the racial makeup of those in poverty. The pressures, however, are applied regardless of race, a fact that is elusive for so many, unfortunately.