I want services, and I'm willing to pay... for those services that I want.
I actually have a suggestion for this, but people tend not to like it.
I think that when you file your taxes, you should be able to fill out a form saying where the money goes. So you can pick whatever services you like and send money to them. This can be the fire department, roads, etc. If you fill out the form online, you can drill down to a relatively low level (e.g. replacing the stop sign at the end of your street with a traffic light). If there's not enough money for your pet project, then the money is invested in treasury bonds until there is enough money (or it passes the statutory period and goes to cancel the national debt).
So Mitt Romney can dedicate all his taxes to the military (because he thinks the military is underfunded). Barack Obama can send his money to international welfare (foreign aid). Hilary Clinton can give hers to domestic welfare. Tom Steyer can send his to the EPA.
This would reunite responsibility and ownership. I wouldn't be paying my taxes for stupid things that I don't like. I may pay them to something that you don't like, but who cares? You can pay your taxes to something that I don't like.
A side effect of this is that we'd balance the budget. Programs would only get money if they could get funding. And people could no longer complain about how idiot politicians spend our money. We could only complain about how other people spend their money, because we'd each be spending our own.
I stopped shopping there long ago because they stopped stocking anything useful. I don't need a cellphone from them, I needed parts, which they no longer carry.
Some stores no longer carry parts, and some carry a reduced inventory. But some stores still carry a decent supply of components ans similar small, useful items. We have two Radio Shack stores in the closest city; one is essentially useless and simply directs me to the other store (but I frequently try it anyway, since it's the closer of the two). The other one isn't half bad, and almost always has what I need. I shall certainly miss it if it goes away.
We warn the reader in advance that the proof presented here depends on a clever but highly unmotivated trick. -- Howard Anton, "Elementary Linear Algebra"