Hypothetical: you go out drinking with coworkers at a new job. One of those coworkers declines to drink. You say, "Oh c'mon. Just one drink."
You don't pay attention much beyond that. A couple of days later you hear they're in the hospital. Liver failure. Turns out they were a recovering alcoholic, and your prompting led to the straw that broke the camel's back. But as it turns out, you're a genetic match despite not being related. What luck!
No other known matches in the area. You only just met them. Not even sure you like them. But I f you don't submit to a liver donation, they die.
Doesn't matter if you don't like them. Doesn't matter your only involvement with them was under pleasurable circumstances for only a few minutes. Doesn't matter if you yourself were drunk. Doesn't matter if all the hospitals are full of Covid patients.
You go under the knife by choice or folks will take it forcefully.
Except they can't force you. Whether you played a material part in the situation is not relevant. Doesn't matter they are 100% dependent upon you for survival. It's a legal principle called "bodily autonomy". Morally it may be questionable to others, but you are under no legal obligation to get a section of your liver removed even though it is highly likely you would suffer no long term consequences. (Though any surgery has its risks, and you have a non-zero chance of dying on the table.)
The difference here is that pregnancy and childbirth is *riskier* and more straining than donating a section of liver.
But according to you bodily autonomy shouldn't apply in you were born female and are between the approximate ages of 12 and 50.
Her circumstances, her wishes, her health status, etc. don't matter. Because it upsets your feels. Bodily autonomy doesn't apply to them for...reasons. This old book says so, and even though we have this thing called "freedom of religion," your book trumps all (even though the book doesn't even mention abortion being a sin or an unborn child being a person).
So which is it? Should everyone be forced to donate blood, bone marrow, some liver, or a kidney because lives are dependent upon them doing so? Or does bodily autonomy apply to every equally?
Choose carefully.