zaximka's Journal: We all fake orgasm

Fake orgasm seems to be mysterious thing to me. Everyone knows that people fake orgasm and at the same time everyone denies the fact that one of her or his partners has ever faked orgasm. Why does it happen? Perhaps we all want to be unique, we all do not want to recognize the fact that our partners might deceive us. Did you never pretend to achieve orgasm?

Than perhaps you are not aware of main reasons for fake climax. Here are they.

A woman might fake orgasm for various reasons. She does not want to offend or discourage her partner. She can orgasm only through clitoral stimulation and is ashamed of speaking about this matter. She needs much time and use of some sex toys (like a rabbit vibrator or a clitoral vibe) or oral sex to achieve orgasm, but again she finds it very embarassing to speak about such things. She wants to create an illusion of ideal relationships. She is tired and she wants him to stop.

It might sound surprising, but men as well fake orgasm. This happens when a man is drunk and understands he will never cum. He might be very tired and have no wish go on making love. At the same time he does not want to hurt his partner. He fakes orgasm (of course, this is possible only with a condom) and falls asleep.

What can you do to prevent such a situation? First of all create trustful relationships. Get to know what your partner wants. Does she want to use sex toys? Do not mind, and instead shop for a sex toy with her. Let her know you respect her preferences and will not think she is abnormal if she asks you to stimulate her clitoris for achieving an orgasm. Agree not to have drunk sex. Be honest with each other.

And do not be angry with your patner who fakes orgasm. Try to find the reason and to solve it together.

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