The fact that you refer to people who "click 'ok' on all the addons their favourite 'free' download site suggests" as "douchehats" is precisely why the rest of the world thinks IT heads are assholes. And the rest of the world is right to think so. This applies to all your other examples.

So let me rephrase your conclusion:

If you are unable to help and educate your users, your customers, or your students, if you are not willing to make your software, your service or product or whatever it is you provide friendly to non-expert, then my self-righteous friend you should get out of your field and get a fucking factory job, because you are the problem.

No, we get a bunch of autistic monkeys instead.

Expect a statement from renowned scientists and vaccine experts Jenny McCarthy and Jim Carey soon.

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To remove a residential, wireless, fax, or VoIP telephone number from the National Do Not Call List (DNCL), you must call the National DNCL Service Line at 1-866-580-DNCL (1-866-580-3625) or by a TTY 1-888-DNCL-TTY (1-888-362-5889) from the number you wish to remove.

from https://www.lnnte-dncl.gc.ca/annins-dereg-eng.