Don't bother. These guys aren't interested in data or facts. You are 100% right: the number of cases rising dramatically and the number of deaths are not. There may be a bump upwards in deaths but that is explained by more testing. Even if you don't agree with my speculation, anyone who isn't blind can see that the case rate is going up 700% but the death rate isn't even close to tracking it. This is political now.
And yes, the more people get it, the more people will die in general. However, you cannot escape viruses. Even New Zealand is learning that and they have the easiest task of all the countries. What is truly scary is how people want to remain in lockdown until the number of cases is a handful. That isn't possible. That will never happen. Thousands of Americans still die of h1n1.