"Do you really walk around thinking you don't have free will?"

Yes.

"Intuitively we grasp that our actions have consequences, and that, in order to get the consequences we want, we have to choose the right actions."

We have to 'perform' the right actions. And you assume that you are free to choose the consequences that you want, which of course, you aren't.

"We all do stupid things, and a lot of people try to pass off the responsibility for their actions to other people, but as a society we have decided to hold each accountable for their own deeds."

Probably yes, but that's got nothing to do with whether strong free-will actually exists. Societies protects themselves, that is why people are punished and deterred, it's convenient (but unnecessary) to justify it by claiming freedom of choice.

I think you are wrong.

"You declare your religious affiliation based on your religious beliefs."

Are you claiming that religious beliefs are not chosen? Do you think they are genetically or culturally determined and you cannot change them? Are you referring to the gullibility gene?

Many believers I know would claim that the choice to 'have faith' is critical to their spirituality. I don't know how having faith in the unknowable can be anything other than choice.

Equally, your political agenda is a choice, as are your political allegiances both as a consequence of, and independently of your agenda.

Do you think it is impossible to become a Muslim other than by birth?

Or have I missed your point and you agree that belief is choice, but that the associated affiliation is not a choice? If so I still think you are wrong.