
You say school should be like a 9-5 job, but how about turning the problem on its face? End the 40-hour standard work week. Stop drilling into peoples' heads that life is about getting a good job and working at it. Stop teaching depth-first and try breadth. Let parents spend more time with their children, and let children spend more time with their parents, and spend time being alive. Of course, this won't happen any time soon, since our societal overlords dictate that we must keep our economy strong in order to maintain (at the root of it) military superiority.
Bertrand Russell provides a much more elegant discourse than I could hope to: In Praise of Idleness.
"When it comes to humility, I'm the greatest." -- Bullwinkle Moose