BOTH, ask for preference (Score 1)

We have God-given rights, Life (air, water, food and place to be) Liberty, (choose whether to work, leave or mooch) and Pursue Happiness. If we are asked how we want to pursue happiness then it would be nice to get help at least in the form of advice, education, tools, whatever is needed to have a shot at actually finding happiness. This is the job of the parents but if it's left to the Feds then Food Stamps, Education vouchers, housing coupons, bus pass and a smartphone should do the trick with maybe a bit of cash for alcohol and CBD to deaden the pain. Money helps but good relationships are better.