Comment In the same boat (Score 0) 433
I was in the same boat except that I was 29 and a systems admin. While my job was pretty good and the pay was enough for me to live comfortably, I decided to go back primarily because I did not want a management position to be jeopardized for not having the degree.
Here's what I did:
1) Pick the school that works best for you, with the major you want. I decided on University of Texas at Dallas because it has historically been a commuter school and offered a lot of even classes. Also, the campus is along my commute from work to home.
2) Find a local community college that offers as many transferable classes as possible. I decided to start at the community college level because the tuition reimbursement at my job isn't all that great. I wanted to use more of the money available in the later stages of my education. Also if I decided that i couldn't handle school and work, I wouldn't be out that much money. Also community colleges usually offer a lot of evening courses. Some community colleges offer the ability to retroactively award an associate degree if you complete the course load at a four year school.
3) Pick your class load. I decided that slow and steady wasn't going to work for me. I went full time, year round. At the end of 2 years, I had an associate degree that no one can take away.
4) Move on to four year school and do as well as you can. I have the advantage of already knowing that I have a really good job and have enough work experience to back it up in case I do need to look for something else. Having a high GPA is nice, but it really doesn't mean much when you already have a job and plenty of work experience. I have done as much as I can to pass classes with out much effort. With one exception (I had to take Calculus II four times before finally passing it.), I passed most of my classes with A's and B's. Now I'm about a semester and some change from graduating.
Unless you are already a super math genius, I would definitely bone up on your algebra and calculus prior to taking them. I had a 15 year gap in my math education that was really hard to overcome. Especially for CS. You might as well take a few extra maths and get a math degree as well.