Be loyal to yourself (Score 1)

I'm loyal to me. I recently left a good job for a new higher paying less commute job. I love the extra money and the shorter commute. So go for it.

I know myself, so I know bargaining just tends to make me angry...but if you do it, definitely have a plan. If you want a raise, just ask for it and don't try to bludgeon management with another offer. I'll say hey boss I'm ready for a $10k raise (but more flowery). Then if you don't like what they offer, you can always reply with: I'm disappointed with your offer of $5k, it doesn't seem in line with my value to the company or in the marketplace, I'd really like $10k. If they still don't budge, just leave.