Comment Re:Oh My GOD! (Score 1) 47
How dare A COMPUTER PROGRAM ON THE INTERNET!!11 be more supportive than the kids parents! WTF? That is clearly the cause of her suicide -not depression, not her family ignoring the signs -100% the fault of a computer program.
I'm kinda guessing you dont have much experience with this sort of thing. Never had a friend or family member off themselves. I've had a few.
Look heres the deal. The friend who comes to you, eyes full of tears threatening to kill themselves are the ones most likely to make it. Doesn't mean they aint in danger, they are, but it means they still havent completely closed the door on there being a way out of whatever nightmare is clouding their thoughts. You of course, drop everything and try and help, the alternative is horrifying.
But the ones who don't come to you, thats the biggest danger. They might seem happy, weirdly so, philosophical, apologetic for wrongs and seeming like they are are really turning a corner. Then they walk onto a bridge and step into oblivion.
My old best friends wife did that. Seemingly happy woman, though a little anxious at times. Asian girl, small, pretty , into fun times with her girlfriends. Then one day the police came to his house, said they saw her on CCTV walk to the middle of a bridge, and without hesitating climbed over the handrail and lept to her death on the rocks 8 stories below. He had no warning, she hadn't come to him complaining that he wasn't treating her right or that something had gone wrong. For all any of us can see they where happy newlyweds. To this day a decade later he still cant sleep racking his still grief stricken brain trying to work out what the fuck he missed.
Sometimes you just don't know. The kid might be hiding a secret. Maybe she's gay. Maybe she's trans. Maybe she's getting bullied so relentlessly at school she cant bear waking up. Maybe her uncle is fucking her and shes too ashamed to get help. Who knows why teenagers kill themselves. But sure as fuck they aint gonna be telling their parents.