all drugs exert a destructive influence on lives. every single one
I wouldn't use such a heavy exageration, it damages the rest of your argument.
While I agree some drugs are too difficult to use safely, I don't agree this is sufficient reason to make them illegal. Saying we should keep them illegal because they will destroy lives doesn't help the argument. They already destroy lives, but nobody has trouble finding them. Currently society pays to keep it illegal while also paying criminals to provide it.
I agree that regulated use is justified on many classes of drugs. However, I believe that regulating that use through costs, disincentives, and forced education is a better tactic than arrests and jail time.
Look at the tools to discourage use we have given up:
Any drug proven to be obtainable, easily, should not be regulated such that criminal enterprises are the simplest and easiest way to get it. The costs in such circumstances have proven far too high. How many people are injured or die every year in gang violence versus those who jump off cliffs in a bad LSD trip?
It's called cutting off your nose to spite your face.
Are they bad? Yes.
Should any reasonable person be given free access? No.
Should we criminally prosecute anyone providing them to irresponsible people (Children, Felons)? Yes.
I think your current cost benefit analysis is too naive to be usable for judging where to draw the line. That said, I think we could come up with something more reasonable then the current laws with little effort.
Items to consider:
By my thinking, if it is trivial for a basement lab to make a hard drug, we are better off providing it through legal means with safeguards. Making it impossible to get legally only increases the power of the black market.
Life is a healthy respect for mother nature laced with greed.