Comment Re: My mask your mask (Score 1) 159
because you can choose to go where you want whenever you want.
But you can't actually. You're legally limited on where you can drive, where you can stop, where you can get out, and where you can leave it - either when you can do those things or if you can do them at all. You have to stay within range of a gas or charging station. Etc.
And if so much time is saved by using a personal vehicle, why can people not take a few more seconds to pull out or a few more minutes to stop somewhere safe and change settings?
I think what's going on is that most people don't actually like driving/being in a personal vehicle - that's why they try to get it over with as quickly as possible. (The part I don't get is the insisting that they love it. Like we can just admit that our car-centric society sucks, and most people consider personal vehicles the least sucky way to deal with it.) They look at how public transit and ride shares/taxis sometimes take longer, and imagine it's like being in a personal vehicle but longer. Most complaints about public transit are not intrinsic to public transit, but are symptoms of bad public transit. In places with decent and good public transit, transit stops are closer to destinations than parking lots, you don't have to wait very long, etc. Trains are faster than cars, and in places with bus-only lanes (that are actually enforced) buses sometimes are too.
And then there's the fact that, good or bad, on public transit (and in ride shares/taxis, and while waiting for them), you don't have to deal with the stress of driving and can safely do whatever you want - read, nap, play a video game, watch something, adjust the settings on your personal devices without stopping, etc. etc. If other people are going with you, everyone with you can be mentally present, interact, look at the scenery (vs in a personal vehicle the driver has to focus on driving) etc. So it isn't wasted time in the same way driving is, it's leisure time. (If you asked me if I'd rather drive for 20 minutes or read/game/relax/talk to my kids or friends for an hour, I'm picking the hour every time. Not that that's actually the choice most of the time.) Walking or biking to/from public transit stops (or to/from your destinations) means less time you have to set aside for exercise (or it means being healthier, for the people that don't set aside time for exercise at all)... and it's - dare I say - enjoyable. I bike or walk even on days I have nowhere to go. I travel to places specifically to bike and walk and take transit, and actually see places rather than staring at the backs of cars. I'm less limited on where I can go and when, and enjoying life more than when I used a personal vehicle.