Then die. You paid - at best - a tiny share of the cost of the roads and bridges you likely use every day, the medicines that keep you and your family alive. I'm personally a big fan of antibiotics when I have an infection. What paid for the development of mass production of Penicillin? Oh, right... the military, which is paid for by who, again?
Yeah - those damned government workers... just flaunting their lazy, socialist lifestyles and living off of the hard work and industry of others. I've always felt that cops and firemen were just drains on society. Hell, government subsidies of modern hospitals in rural areas (...where many of the supposedly self-sufficient people live and work) are just a drain on your independently earned dollar. Same idea for schools - screw people in rural areas! They shouldn't have modern, competitive schools! Don't even get me started about all the hard-earned cash that's wasted in taxes and regulations to compel telecom and electric utilities to provide service to sparsely populated areas.
While we're at it - what about all of those contractors that are building things for government agencies? Clearly all pork. Shut 'em down! Why bother with helicopters for the Coast Guard? If someone's ship capsizes then it was clearly their fault! And if they can't swim to shore when 10 miles out? Screw 'em.
Oh - and your job? Hopefully whatever goods or services you're involved with selling/producing/distributing/etc aren't ever procured by people who work for those contractors building those helicopters, tanks, ships, planes, etc - 'cause then your livelihood is, at least partially, tied to precisely the same tax-mooching lazy bastards you're sick of supporting.
Take a look at how much money is spent of AFDC or Medicaid. It's a lot of money. Now compare that to the cost of the defense department budget, Social Security, Medicare or the cost of infrastructure. Guess what? It's a *LOT* more money.
Face it, all of the self-sufficient hard work you're putting out there to make money from the open market is utterly and completely reliant on lots of shared services and, yes, regulations that are administered by local, state and federal government. Short of folks living in tribes in the furthest corners of the Earth, *everyone* is reliant on some amount of so-called welfare.