Comment On the Scientific and Spiritual Habits of Mind (Score 1) 698
Lots of great suggestions in this thread. Thank you for posting the inquiry.
The one thing I haven't seen addressed (except indirectly) is how to strike an appropriate balance between the rationality and open inquiry of science, and spirituality. I firmly believe this is not an either/or tradeoff. You might consider referring her to Feynman, or Sagan, or a book I used long ago in college called "The Way of the Scientist" (don't know the author/editor) that has interviews with well known scientists. In our anti-scientific time, the commitment to evidence-based inquiry as the way of finding truth about the physical universe needs to be encouraged. I was lucky enough to have a father who lived into his mid-80's. To the end, there was nothing that delighted him more than finding a new way of thinking about how the world (and people!) worked -- as long as the new framework did a better, more complete job of explanation and prediction than what his previous understanding, no matter how firmly held it was.
But we still need spirituality to assign meaning to what we figure out, and I readily admit that there are important dimensions of life that we do not (yet?) know how to address with scientific habits of mind.