While waiting in line at the bank one day I noticed that the customer in front of me was angrily arguing with the female teller over when the bank credited deposits vs debits on an account --- it sounded like there were some bounced checks involved and the customer wanted the bank to foot the bill.
The customer asked for, and got, the teller's boss --- another women. The argument continued.
After a bit more of the back and forth the customer asked, and I quote, "Could talk to a man about this?"
My jaw dropped.
The customer was a women.
After telling the story to a banker and old neighbor I asked if this sort of thing was common in what I'd thought of as the 21st century.
She just laughed.