Agree with you. Give some one power and THEY WILL abuse it.
Sounds like you had a terrible manager, but what you said isn't some universal truth. I've been in management for over 10 years. It wasn't because I cared about power to prop up my own ego, it's because I outperformed others and I was intelligent and reliable. The first few years as a manager I learned a lot about how to get what you need from people by trial and error, then finally started reading books on leadership and management to learn the craft. It's not the most fun job in the world either. Many times I wish I could clock in and clock out and not have everyone's problems be mine. Someone d*cks around on their cellphone instead of doing their job, then wants to work overtime to get caught up. Someone clips their toenails at their desk or microwaves fish and stinkbombs the office. Every angry client demands to speak to you. Someone's year end bonus amount, if they get promoted, if they get hired, if they get fired...you have to make decisions constantly that can affect the company and people's lives. Everything you do is scrutinized...what you wear, what you say, who you talk to. It's a lot of responsibility. Some days you think...I wouldn't mind doing something else but you wear the golden handcuffs. You have a salary and a mortgage and a family. Try being a manager, and be the manager you want to have. Come in and work, figure out what your boss wants from you and say and do the right things. Work 10% harder than your coworkers. Don't bitch about things, just be helpful. It's not hard, I've seen plenty of people work their way up just by doing simple things like that.
The bogosity meter just pegged.