Comment Breaking the ice (Score 1) 71
I have to suspect that part of the result comes from both participants having been told what to discuss, to establish common knowledge of what kind of conversation to expect.
Without that, unilaterally deciding to go "deep" with a stranger is violating a social norm (perhaps to a reduced extent if you start by saying "I know it's weird but I think deep conversations are better", but still even then). Which in turn probably makes you seem unpredictable, puts people on edge, and makes them question your motives.