IBM gear gets you LPARs, with a real hypervisor that is laps ahead of all the other stuff.
You're absolutely right. We're just finishing migrating our data warehouse Database, ETL, and BI systems from smaller x86 boxes over to LPARs on a mid-upper-range POWER6 box. The performance and the on-the-fly configuration that our AIX admin can do on this box is SIMPLY AMAZING. We have lots of boxes running in VMWare environment, too. But the capabilities there performance-wise don't even touch IBM's visualization.
A couple with similar personalities and family backgrounds, 20 or so years down the road from you would be the best fit. You might have to search at work, professional, social, or religious organizations that one or both of you belong to to find these people. These should not be close family members who see things through a lens of "your side" of any issue, but more likely people you've met after you were already in a serious relationship or married.
Also, if many of friends get divorced down the road, I'd suggest you disassociate with most of them (not necessarily all - I'm not telling you to ditch your best friend). Many of them will give you bad advice tainted by their own bad experiences. Find friends who have healthy, committed, long-lasting marriages to hang out with. I'd also look for mentors who have kids that have turned out the same way as you'd like to see yours.
As with most serious endeavors in your life, supporting mentors and peers will be a huge key to success. Somehow in our culture people get this idea that romance is a deal that you are going to go the distance alone, the truth is that it often requires a lot of support and advice.
In your professional life, you'd try to do the same thing - find other people who have achieved or are working toward similar goals and "network" - to use the modern day term. Of course this works much the same way in every part of your life.
I've heard a quote - "You are the same today as youâ(TM)ll be in five years except for two things, the books you read and the people you meet." from a guy named Charlie T Jones. I know that I am tempted at times to just read the book and then try to do it alone. Whether it be something as simple as building a tree-house for my kids, or as complex as heading up a big project at work, or as daunting as raising a kid with ADD - I've found that finding mentors who've been there and peers who are there can make all the difference in the world.
To be fair, the UN is completely unrelated to the Olympics, which is run by the International Olympic Committee. You can't really use the failings of the IOC to attack the UN.
The failings of the UN are more than adequate for that purpose.
A businessman is a hybrid of a dancer and a calculator. -- Paul Valery