I care about the consequences of sexism towards men, FWIW. I had a female supervisor who used to say sexist things and expect me to agree with them when a) I didn't and b) there were 8 guys in the room that I had to work with. It was very uncomfortable.

I used to use Eclipse when I was primarily doing Java development with a little bit of PHP support but now that I've changed jobs and almost exclusively work in PHP I use NetBeans. PHP support seems to be a lot better integrated and debugging was easy to get working. The only real issue I have with NetBeans is that it doesn't support as many languages - I occasionally need to work in Perl and it's pretty weak for that.

I'm concerned that with Oracle purchasing Sun and having their own IDE that Oracle will kill off support for NetBeans. Their announcement that the next JavaOne won't include presentations about other languages that use the JVM looks to be a portent.

I was also surprised that so many of these tools are Windows-only since PHP is usually the P in LAMP.

Truth is an absolute defense against libel.

Mine scratched my discs even though I never moved the console.