I do not believe there is a silver bullet to avoiding divorce. I know enough to say that divorce sucks... not from personal experience, but from statistics that are readily available regarding how many people regret having divorced, who would rather have stayed in the marriage... and from people who have gone through it.
But I believe the philosophy presented on this website contains a certain truth that every human being needs -- that women desire above all things love, and men desire above all things respect. (The cycles described and relentlessly illustrated on the website I personally feel are a bit over the top and don't help me personally get the concept... but for other people it might make more sense.)
Marriage doesn't have to suck!
By the way, I was an environmentalist in 2000. Still am, but priorities change. 2004's priority was "ability to define oneself." Don't worry, I don't expect you to get it.
President: A. Gore (D)
6th Dist. Rep: H. Hyde (R)
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backups: always in season, never out of style.