Comment Re:Well of course they shouldn't (Score 1) 346
Seek employment elsewhere with an understanding you are relocating and take that offer to your existing firm. They either take it and you get to live where you want and make you what you want while keeping the same job or you get to make what you want and live where you want working for the new company. Get your current comp and ongoing comp moving forward written into your employment agreement and If you think your current employer is going to screw you over then move on.
I work remotely. I ditched the silicon valley rat race more than a decade ago and still make a great salary as I won't accept employment somewhere that tries to lowball me based on where I choose to live. You shouldn't either. If the firm doesn't counter they are definitely getting you for less than they budgeted.
Don't depend on someone else to get you a "good deal". Have another offer in your back pocket and use that leverage. If you feel you are truly being treated poorly then look around for something new. Don't fall for the myth of "company spirit" or any such thing. Business is business. Keep your feelings out of it. Keep a cool head and always be professional.