but few people can tell the difference [when comparing 8K] with 4K,
I can well believe this. For a very long time I really struggled with sub-pixel rendering because it (to me) left visible colour fringes on the edge of letters. It was "bizarre" when the word "well" at the start of this sentence might have one red and one blue 'l' for example.
Since switching to 4K I've not had a problem. While writing this I double checked and the colour edging is still there but I can't really see it at all. Now I've looked carefully I can see that the 'im' in the middle of "time" has a faint reddish hue which changes as I scroll the text but it's so faint as to be almost unnoticeable.
Additionally, anti-aliased text doesn't look particularly blurred any more, certainly not enough that I'm straining to "bring it into focus" - obviously not going to work as it's not out of focus to start with.
At home, I've still got sub-pixel rendering and anti-aliasing turned off. Yes, text is sharper but it's also more jagged and, at 4K, it's not obvious which one is better (to my eyes) and were I starting from scratch I wouldn't take the time working out how to turn off sub-pixel rendering and anti-aliasing (but I'm also not going to spend the time working out what I need to undo to turn it back on after all these years).
Of course, countless people will say "you can't see colour fringing if sub-pixel rendering is done correctly, you must have it setup wrongly" - but it's a fact that I can, no matter how it is tweaked. Anti-aliasing on lower DPI screens is equally as uncomfortable to me although that difference is visible to others too, just that they disagree with me about which is easier to look at. FWIW, it's obviously a fact that I can see colour fringing that others can't because we can talk about the same text on the same screen at the same time, and I can say "look, that "l" has a green fringe, that "M" is red etc, they can say "I can't see it". Then you take a screen shot, zoom in and they say "Oh, yes, I can see it now!"