Oblivion (eternal unconsciousness or annihilation) is not an option. It's like a person who feels offended by gravity declaring, "I choose levitation." These are your only options:
"And I heard a great voice out of heaven saying, Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his people, and God himself shall be with them, and be their God. And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away." Revelation 21:4-5
"Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels:" Matthew 25:41
I never asked to be created.
Yes, and just as He didn't seek your approval before creating you, He also won't seek your approval before condemning you to eternal conscious torment. "Wherefore should the heathen say, Where is now their God? But our God is in the heavens: he hath done whatsoever he hath pleased." Psalm 115:3
Don't be a fool: "Nay but, O man, who art thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed it, Why hast thou made me thus?" Romans 9:20
"Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil." Proverbs 3:7
Even then, I will never willingly submit to some bastard who's only tenet is "love me, or suffer."
Whether you like it or not, you have been born into a world where your actions affect others, and ours affect you. You have no right to harm your neighbours, either by neglect or by abuse, without consequences.
God's wisdom, knowledge, and understanding are infinite, and His love, justice, and mercy are perfect. Obviously, ours are not. It follows logically from this that we are required to submit to His perfect standard, rather than being allowed to invent our own: the alternative is the awful chaos with which humanity's rebellion has filled the Earth to this day.
Moreover, we certainly have no right to despise our Creator and just do our own (destructive, blasphemous) thing: He made us for a purpose. He gives us life, knowledge, pleasure, and many other wonderful things; will you bite the hand that feeds you? Are you stronger than God?
"Thou art worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honour and power: for thou hast created all things, and for thy pleasure they are and were created." Revelation 4:11
Love extracted at the end of a sword is not love.
This is true. The Bible has a word for the person who "loves" God only out of fear of punishment, or a selfish hope for reward: hypocrite - literally, an actor.
"Ye hypocrites, well did Esaias prophesy of you, saying, This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with their lips; but their heart is far from me. But in vain they do worship me, teaching for doctrines the commandments of men." Matthew 15:7-9
God well knows that fallen humanity has such an evil heart that, on our own, we are incapable of true gratitude toward our Creator: "As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one: There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God. They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one." Romans 3:10-12 "Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be." Romans 8:7
But, the Good News is that God's goodness is greater than our wickedness. He is able to change our hearts and set us free from our hard bondage to the madness of sin:
"Know ye not, that so many of us as were baptized into Jesus Christ were baptized into his death? Therefore we are buried with him by baptism into death: that like as Christ was raised up from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
For if we have been planted together in the likeness of his death, we shall be also in the likeness of his resurrection: Knowing this, that our old man is crucified with him, that the body of sin might be destroyed, that henceforth we should not serve sin. For he that is dead is freed from sin.
Now if we be dead with Christ, we believe that we shall also live with him: Knowing that Christ being raised from the dead dieth no more; death hath no more dominion over him. For in that he died, he died unto sin once: but in that he liveth, he liveth unto God.
Likewise reckon ye also yourselves to be dead indeed unto sin, but alive unto God through Jesus Christ our Lord. Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof. Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God.
For sin shall not have dominion over you: for ye are not under the law, but under grace." Romans 6:3-14
God freely offers this new life, and eternal forgiveness for all of our sins, to anyone who will repent (confess their evil and turn from it) and place their trust in Jesus Christ, who suffered under the wrath of God and died in our place about two thousand years ago, although He Himself was innocent. Three days later God raised Him bodily from the dead, after which He appeared for forty days to many witnesses, to show that God has the power not only to kill, but also to make alive.
But beware, for "Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved." Acts 4:12
"For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins, But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries.
He that despised Moses’ law died without mercy under two or three witnesses: Of how much sorer punishment, suppose ye, shall he be thought worthy, who hath trodden under foot the Son of God, and hath counted the blood of the covenant, wherewith he was sanctified, an unholy thing, and hath done despite unto the Spirit of grace?
For we know him that hath said, Vengeance belongeth unto me, I will recompense, saith the Lord. And again, The Lord shall judge his people. It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God." Hebrews 10:26-31