Comment Move where the cost of living is lower. (Score 4, Interesting) 708
I assume the reason that you haven't purchased a house is because you can't afford it where you currently live.
If that's the case, you really need to move somewhere that has affordable housing. There's lots of places with affordable housing that have developer jobs.
I recently moved from New Jersey, which is mostly horribly expensive, to Cary, North Carolina, which is a small town between Raleigh and Durham.
I bought my first home at age 41 for $215K. It's an older home, but it's 2000 sqft, on 1/2 acre, with an in-ground pool. My property taxes are $1600 a year. A similar home in NJ would easily cost over twice as much and the taxes would likely be 8K or more per year if I was lucky.
Here in the Raleigh/Durham/Cary "Research Triangle" area, you could probably find a job with Deutsche Bank or Credit Suisse if you really want to stay on the Financial/Banking career path.