For a reference point, i would recommend researching NLP or NeuroLinguisticProgramming. An Adage i have adopted is that if it works in one thing, it works in everything, or it does not work. How that can relate to your personal interactions, if to find a relative example, be it baking a cake, dissassembly of an engine, or how how the internals of your HDD resemble information/music being recorded and/or played on a record player. The trick to communication is 2fold. you have to share an experience for familiarity/trust and you have to present in a manner that can be translated. intro/extro we are all verts and by utilizing the skills we are already more than proficient at, we can display groking of anyevery other thing.